Well since that last post in 2016, life and death has happened. About halfway through those years from 2016-2022, I lost my son, my Matthew — too soon, too sadly. He left us all behind: wife, 2 daughters and a son and a wee baby girl who would be born 3 months after he died. We get through our days now, better than 2 years or 1 year ago, – but most days, along with joyful memories, there are moments when it is hard to breathe when the reality surfaces and we crumble. I will write more when I have better wits about me.